Want to try something that’ll make you feel hot and naughty? Get yourself all worked up and ready for a steamy time, whether it’s with a partner or your favorite toy. Take time to turn yourself on throughout the day and by the time dinner rolls around, you’ll be craving some attention. Which can make your orgasms hotter, faster, and more intense.
How? Try these little tricks to get, and keep, your juices flowing all day long.
Dress the Part – Sexy Underwear
Forget the boring briefs, reach for something a bit racier. Slip on sexy panties and a matching bra, no one else can see them, but feeling sexy is a sure way to turn yourself on. A pearl thong like this one by Bracli can be your little secret!
Spice up your daily wear with little things like a bright lipstick, a favorite scent, a silk scarf, or spectacular heels. Keep it subtle so only you know the secret.
Concentrate on Those Kegels
Doing Kegel exercises is good for your body, but they also stimulate your mind. Instead of mindlessly practicing the clench-hold-release-repeat cycle, concentrate when you do them. Feel the parts of your body tighten, then imagine clenching around something, or someone. When can you practice your sexy kegels? Here are some ideas:
- Driving and a good song comes on? Try pulsing your muscles in time to the song. Pull over if you have to.
- Sitting at your desk typing up emails? Try doing a Kegel or two every time you press the space bar or hit return. That’s a hot sentence.
- Bathroom breaks. Obviously an awesome time.
- Take your texts to a new level with your partner and start Kexting!
Go for Insertables
Nothing has to be buzzing here, but a set of ben-wa balls, or a toy like the Ami by Je Joue will feel good, and keep your mind repeatedly wandering back to your bits. Bonus, using insertables like these also helps train you to do those Kegels correctly.
Speaking of your mind wandering, a little daydreaming is a good thing. Take a few minutes to tune out to the world around you and indulge in a little fantasy. It can be purely pornographic, more romantic, or anything that gets you hot and bothered.
Be a Tease
Find sneaky ways to touch yourself in ways that excite you. Stroke your neck, twiddle your earlobe, maybe even tweak a nipple when you’re all alone. Try crossing your legs, then pulling the top leg in toward your chest. You’ll be gently stimulating your clitoris with the pressure. A little clandestine touching feels naughty and extra hot, leaving you wanting more.
To Finish or Not to Finish
If you want to get yourself worked up so you’re super horny and ready for an intense orgasm later, don’t let yourself reach orgasm during the day. You want to build up the sexual tension and keep yourself on the edge for release later. If you’ve got a private space where you can sneak off for a few minutes of private time, try bringing yourself right to the very beginning of an orgasm, then stopping.
Taking time to turn yourself on throughout the day puts your body and mind in a sexy space, making it easier to set aside the stresses of the day and enjoy more intense fun later.