Most women have fantasized about being spanked. Maybe it’s a classic, over-the-knee with the skirt pulled up, or a quick swat while being taken from behind. Spanking can be part of sexy bedroom role play, or done for sensation, or erotic control. Whatever the reason, spanking sex is hot, and porn isn’t the only source for some steamy scenes.
Spanking in Movies
Did you get hot while watching Secretary? The scene when he first spanks her as she is bent over his desk is a classic. Or Dana Delaney in Live Nude Girls fantasizing about being spanked by the Don. Who can forget Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger in 9 ½ Weeks? For a more intense spanking scene, there’s Keira Knightley in A Dangerous Method. Even the most wholesome of TV shows featured a little over-the-knee action, Ricky spanked Lucy several times on I Love Lucy. We have a fascination with turning bottoms pink.
Spanking sex gets us hot, and ladies don’t have to be on the receiving side. Exit to Eden may have been a silly comedy, but it included some steamy female-dominant spanking.
How to Have Spanking Sex
If watching a steamy spanking sex scene gets you all hot and bothered, maybe it’s time to give it a try.
Spanking Sex Step: 1
The first step is talking to your partner. Whether you want to give or receive, you’ve got to have a willing accomplice. Bring it up casually, and ask if they’d be willing to try it out, then start slowly.
Spanking Sex Step:2
Start with a hand, lightly tapping the the bottom with the palm. The idea is to get both the giver and the receiver used to the sensations and activity. It also increases blood flow to the area, heightening arousal and reducing the risk of leaving marks.
Spanking Step: 3
To increase the intensity, use the whole hand, like a slap. Leaving the hand flat produces a stingier sensation, while cupping the hand for the spanking creates a deeper, thuddier feeling. Everyone is different, try both to see which you like.
After the Spanking
Spanking does come with risks, skin can bruise, and muscles and skin can be left a bit tender, depending on the intensity of the spanking. Warming up and increasing intensity slowly, or keeping the spanking light can reduce the risks of bruising. For most people, a few tender spots and the occasional small bruise are pleasant reminders of a good time.
Upping the Spanking Heat
You can add paddles, belts, or other tools to your spanking arsenal, but one of the best things about spanking sex is that you have all the tools you need right in the palm of your hand.
Want to See More?
There’s plenty of spanking erotica out there to choose from, and with a little careful looking, it’s not too difficult to find hot spanking scenes in mainstream movies and porn. It’s a great way to have fun with spanking solo, or gently entice your partner into some play.
Spanking Sex Erotica
Hot Spanking Sex: Soft Porn
Sure to steam things up a bit, this clip includes some nice over-the-knee action, oral (on the girl even!) and even hot sex! Yes, it’s hardcore.